for the vids, I know we just do not have the data space available to keep all the vids, so youtube and a link are the only ways. As for the pics, I know, it sucks that only 1 at a time can be done to a max of 10 per post. I'm sure there are other versions of SMF that could be purchased, but I know Hoss wants to keep this site free for all and an upgrade can be a little pricey with no income generated from the site.
Sorry of the "brick wall" answers, I know it sucks, we are doing the best we can behind the scenes!
Bryan